Secret Relationships are doomed. Thats why its compulsory to announce marriage.
Who cant own you in Public and in front of family, cant be trutable.
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What hurts more?
Giving hopes to a hopeless man, And then leaving him back to where he was.
There is a story of a homeless guy living in cold weather outside. Once a rich car stopped next to him and asked him, doesn't he feel cold without jacket? Homeless guy replied:"i have developed habit". The guy in car promised him, he will bring him a coat, he has at home. Homeless guy cheered with smile.
Rich guy went home and forgot to give the Coat to homeless guy. Next morning when he went back to the place, Homeless guy was found dead.
He always lived through the cold weather, but that night he was given home so he became weak.
Yeah I know, Lets agree to disagree. But cmon take a side and lets argue for the sake of Arguments.
، تجھ سے گفتگو دیر تک چلے
اس لیئے تیری ہر بات سے اختلاف کیا
If he is not owning you in public, Then he could be related to someone else too. Or he ain't serious.
Thats why Islam made it compulsory to announce the Marriage. Marriage can't be hidden but Your relationships are. Thats why they decline.
Personal Opinionated Post, Isn't meant for all to fit in or feel offended. Preferences differ from person to person.:
To "me" Arrange marriage is not scary concept but what if she has has opinions she can't define nor defend.
Is more interested in fashion industry than why she was created.
And knows more about films and actors than whats going on in the World
I have no issue if she doesn't have a degree, but what if she is pursuing a degree 'only' to get a good match.
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There are different levels of stress, problems.
Basic Issues: Ek gareeb aadmi iss liye preshan hoga k bacho ko khilane k pese nahi. aur suicide krna chahta.
Middle class issues: Ek middle class family ka Larka Job/Achi job bht koshish k baad bhi ni milne pr stress mei hoga. aur suicide krna chahta.
First World Issues: Ek shakas jis k paas CAR , achi job sab hei, Wo iss liye preshan hoga k uss ki Gf chor gyi. Aur suicide krna chahta.
Kehne ko ye 3no problems bht alag hein, Compare krei tu khanay k liye preshan shakas k muqabley pr Gf wala banda Bewaqoof aur Na-Shukra hei,,,, LEKIN THIS IS THE MAIN CONCEPT, Stress Level is same in all examples. Elite class wala sab kuch hotey hue bhi utna hi preshan hwi jitn tension bhookey gharib ko
If you marrying, consuder the someone who loves you first. If not, Marrying someone in arranged setup is okayish. But if you wanna go for love marriage, Make sure its not infatuation. Previous post is more detailed. for this part.
Im straight-forward, I believe in Love "But" I believe in marriage more. If I have little interest in you, I am definitely going to ask you: Will you marry me, with all my shortcomings. If you say No, then we are good, or maybe Good friends. I aint gonna get involve to much into u,Keeping things simple.
I believe in love but I Never believed in Love at first sight. Love at first sight is based on physique/Body, for which appropriate word is lust.
Love for me is loving their habits/personality, or their Vibe.
Now bear in mind, Its not necessary to marry everyone with good Personality. You got to marry once(speaking for majority) and you may find many good people, who r loveable.
Save your feelings for one who accepts U too.
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