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Sadness weighs me down so much it feels like it might never go away. My heart races, and my mind could erupt like molten lava from the depths of the Earth.I've crippled my ability to do anything good.But I'm lost and don't even recognize myself anymore. I'm stuck in endless pain that gets worse with each passing minute.There's no peace, only chaos and an unsettling darkness that seems to possess my very soul.They say time heals but im sure this won't. Sleep is my only escape, but how long I can sleep? It seems like only death can end this suffering, but as they say it never comes to those who seek it. This sadness has no intention of leaving. It's like I'm sentenced to a lifetime of misery...♥️

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F  : Would you waken my heart if it closes? If you do so, would you have given - 
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You know that loop where you are trying to satisfy eveybody, all the time, you want to be the good friend, daughter, lover, sister, brother, partner. You want to be there all the time, you want to help, console, understand and cheer them up, solve problems if possible, and you do your best to do that. You are running here and there, neglecting your needs, forgetting how exausted you are, how you are drained, and all of a sudden you get slapped when you realize you can't satisfy everybody. There will always be something missing, And for so many times your so long efforts won't even be felt or seen. You are human and you need to rest, you need to say out loud to yourself "ENOUGH"...♥️

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F  : When people walk away from you, what truly hurts is not their absence, but - 
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For Boys and specially for a elder one like me, our family is our comfort what we live for, no matter we are dying by sacrificing our wishes but we will live until the situation gets better. Or jb situation better bna denge tb jo chz jis umr mein krni chiye thi wo umr nikl jyegi or shyd tb tk sab bdl jye or is trha ek din sukoon ki need sojy gy or duniya ka ye waqt guzar jaega Akhir.Agar apke pas wo sab hai jo ap chahty thy ya uska adha bhi toh ap bht khush naseeb hein or uski qadar karen boht zyada khas kr k ap k maa baap ki kew k unki wja sy ap yaha hy or agr ni hein tw unke liye wo sab kry jo unho ny apke liye kiya jb apko pta b ni tha duniya ka. Zindgi se mayos roz hota hu pr sochta hun jena bhi tw hy...♥️

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In our middle class society, there is nothing like Dil jo kahe wo karo
Dil jo kahe wo kru? Kesey? Itna paisy hy? Waqt hy? Halaat ijazat dety hy? Ghr chly ga? Guzara hoga? Bills or fees ho Jayegi?
Kya kaha? Waqt lgta hai sb ma?
Pr tb tk kesy krygy sb manage jb tk dil ki bt pr amal hojye or kmyabi mily
Hamry pas backup plan ni hoty yr, hamry pas bs ek plan hota hy kamana hai or khana hai tbi tw majboori ma start ki hoi job ko majbori ma ab tk chla rahy hy, beshk usme sehat ki bj gai ho, kew k dil ki suny k liye jo kan chaiye nw un kano ma bs ye sunayi deta hy k "Beta tum thk ho nw, sehat kesi hy, khana khaya, job kesi chal rhi hai" agar yaha dil ki bat ajaye tw kya ye sab sawalon k jwab bardast k laiq hogy family k?🙂♥️

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You know you're enamored when you can't nod off in light of the fact that the truth is at long last in a way that is better than your dreams.
However, the truth is resolved not by what researchers or any other person says or accepts yet by what the proof uncovers to us.
I think our life is an excursion, and we commit errors, and it's the manner by which we gain from those missteps and bounce back from those mix-ups that shows us the way that we're intended to be on. So in end, juvenile love says: 'I love you since I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you since I love you...♥️

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When some of us get the compliments, we try to change the topic, make a joke about it, or simply put the compliment back on who said it. This is because, there was a phase in our lives when getting attention or this much validation wasn't our thing due to the image of being insufficient (as per society's standards) we had of ourselves. So now when all of a sudden the appreciation kicks in, it's a mixture of 'What?' 'How?' 'Why?' and 'Thanks' at the same time...♥️

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F  : Here I am, a bundle of past recollections and future dreams, knotted up in a - 
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The reality only becomes a problem when you are set on denying it. That is especially the problem with human nature. If you want to start fixing your life and want to understand yourself more just ask yourself a simple question "what is the only thing that you don't like about yourself and will want to change?"
The answer will be the if you can just control yourself for a "feeling good" moment and prefer your social, moral, and ethical obligations over your weak moments you can conquer or change whatever you want. Don't run from responsibility, it's gonna come for you, the later you will realize the more irreversible damage you will do to yourself...♥️

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F  : So many people around us everyday tell us how much they love us in their - 
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You’re so kind to the world, be kind to you too. Don’t be too hard on yourself, honey.
It’s time you change your definition of productivity. Taking mental health breaks, power naps, and going out on shopping or dining with family/friends is productive too, because you are listening to your soul.
Keeping your inner child happy and alive is nothing, but productive...♥️

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One of the risks of being quiet is that other people can fill your silence with their own interpretation: You’re bored. You’re depressed. You’re shy. You’re stuck up. You’re judgmental. When others can’t read us, they write their own story—not always one we choose or that’s true to who we are...♥️

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//Goodbyes//
Few days back I was talking to a friend and he mentioned how he never got a chance to say goodbye. In that moment, it struck me that life can be so cruel sometimes.
No doubt, goodbyes are the hardest and most painful. But have you ever imagined what it feels like to not have a chance to say goodbye? It’s like you had it all and suddenly it just vanished, and now you’re in a new setting. Like a young death no one ever saw coming.
Life can change in minutes without any warnings. So, if you still have a chance to say your goodbyes, do it. Life doesn’t give everyone that chance...♥️

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Everyday you come across so many faces yet only a few make their way to the heart. Aur kbhi kbhi lagne lagta hai jaise vo chand mukhlis log bhi badal gaye hain. Nothing bothers me more than how to crack whether someone’s being nice to me for their own good or are they really that nice? Shayad log badal jatay hain ya shayad humein unki achahyi pr yaqeen aana hi bnd hujata hai.
Vo kehte hain na:
Log sab hi ache hutay hain,
Bas khuda bura waqt na laye...♥️

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F  : The thorns of the flower might hurt you bad. You’ll bleed & scream, but do - 
📍As we all keep moving on our separate paths, we lose some of our favourite people, places, and sometimes even opportunities. They say what you lost was never meant to be yours, but then why did we even crossed paths? 
We all have been quoting this for years, “Jitna b try karo Bunny life me kuch na kuch tw chooty ga hi. Toh jaha ho wahi ka mazaa lete hy”
Lekin sawaal yahan yh hy ke jaha hain wahan rukna hy ya chalay jana hy yh kaise pata chaly ga? Ya jaha ruk kr mazaa lerahy hy wahaan rukna tha bhi ya ni? Aur jo peeche reh gaya hy kya woh ahim ni tha kya?
F  : 📍As we all keep moving on our separate paths, we lose some of our favourite - 
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Sometimes I think life is nothing but dust accumulated on a rusty windowpane that has not been opened for years. A window where not even a single ray of hope has visited for years. A window that witnessed life pass by but none of the glimmers of life could touch it. Aren’t we all just stuck behind one such window? The only difference is that each one of us is stuck behind a different window. The dilemma is that no one has been able to open it & breathe for once.
I think this is the very reason that Kashaf’s dialogue has lived on for years & hundreds of people resonate with it.
“Zindagi bht si ajeb baton ka ek majmua hy ajeb baty,itefaqat, maujze.Baaz dfa yh samhj ni ata, agr isko ek jumle ma define krna pade tw wo kya hoga?♥️

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F  : When I was younger, I imagined that my university years would be filled with - 
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This is a gentle reminder for you to stop being so hard on yourself. You don't always have to be perfect. Accept your emotions. It's okay to have a breaking point. You can scream in pain and find comfort in silence. You can disappear and daydreams. You're allowed to be unproductive and refuse to understand some things that are draining you. Little by little, see the goodness in you when you feel like you don't deserve anything. Acknowledge your progress you're worthy enough, you just have to believe in yourself. there's more to life than bad days. you're doing better than you think you are. I hope you find peace within yourself and everything that keeps you alive...♥️