The fastest way to get disrespected is to give access to you like it is free.
Attention is currency. When you give it to disrespect, you reward the behavior you hate. When you withdraw it calmly, you teach the room your price.
Status and respect is never demanded, it is enforced through what you stop tolerating. Know your worth!
Love yourself, so you can attract love in return. If you don't love and respect yourself you will be chasing and giving access to those who don't love and care about you.
~ Qiyara
بعد میں؟
بعد میں توبہ کے دروازے بند کر دیے جاتے ہیں بعد میں سجدوں کی توفیق نہیں ملتی، بعد میں موت ہمارے سامنے کھڑی ہوتی ہے بعد میں صرف حسرت رہ جاتی ہے اور حسرت قسمت نہیں بدلتی
یہ کب کہا ہے کہ ہر آدمی فرشتہ ہو
ستم تو یہ ہے کہ انسان بھی نہیں ہوتا
Human connections are not supposed to feel like mind games. If you’re constantly analyzing someone’s behavior instead of feeling safe in their presence, your nervous system is already telling you something. The body keeps receipt.
کسی نے بزرگ سے پوچھا کہ خاندانی ہونے کی کیا نشانی ہے؟
بزرگ بولے
خاندانی لوگ آسانیاں بانٹتے ہیں اور گھٹیا لوگ پریشانیاں! کیونکہ جیسی نسل ویسی فصل
Fear and misinformation travel 6 times faster than the truth, says journalist Dave Jorgenson. Here's how humor can help break through:
http://t.ted.com/YfsxW3L
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ﺍﻭﺭ ﺩﻭﺳﺮﺍ ﺑﯿﭻ ﮐر
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پوری دنیا تمہیں ایک عام انسان کی طرح دیکھتی ہے اور میں تمہیں پہلے دو لفظوں کی طرح۔
اگر آپ نے کسی سے گیارہ مہینے یہ نہیں پوچھا کہ کہیں آپ بھوکے تو نہیں ہو، پھر آپکو یہ حق بلکل بھی نہیں کہ آپ کسی سے پوچھو کہ آپ کا روزہ ہے یا نہیں
موت ایک عام سے دن تمہارے پاس آئے گی، ادھورے منصوبوں کے درمیان، اور دنیا تمہارے بغیر ہی اپنی راہ پر چلتی رہے گی
In English we say, “It's overthinking”
But in Urdu we say,
“wo baatein khaa gaye mujh ko,
Jo baatein pee gaya tha main”
- Jaun elia
If you are unable to improve yourself by 1% each day, you are wasting God-given time and opportunity.
If the rain that touches skin travelled miles to find you, my dear, then so will everything that is meant for you.
Relax!
Wait... what's yours will never miss you.
"The head never rules the heart, but only becomes its partner in crime,” Mignon McLaughlin said it so well.
You know what, sometimes the real “crime” is surrendering your control to others. You become so naïve and emotionally fragile that you allow anyone easy access to your inner world, and then they begin to manipulate and trigger your reactions. When you give someone the power to control your emotions, you hand over your strength.
Be disciplined enough to manage your emotions, sane enough to recognize manipulation, and strong enough to remain composed.
Master the art of staying a mystery—move with intention, not impulse, and above all, be bold enough to empower yourself instead of seeking validation from others.
In a world full of temporary things, you are a feeling that lasts.
If I love the bird,
I must learn to love the tree.
For love, when chosen in fragments,
ceases to be love at all—
it becomes preference,
a quiet act of division.
To cherish the wing
yet neglect the branch
is to admire the song
while denying its source.
Love, if it is to remain whole,
must embrace the sky,
the roots,
and the unseen earth that holds them both.
Be like water. Don’t cling to anything, including yourself. Let the old versions of you pass. Allow things to move and flow. Don’t get stuck on one idea, one identity, or one season. Explore new horizons, new spaces, new perspectives, and anything that brings out the novelty in you.
فَإِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا
"For indeed, with hardship will be ease."
جب تم اپنی زندگی سے کچرا نکال پھینکو تو پھر تم پر لازم ہے یہ فکر بھی چھوڑ دو کہ تمہارا پھینکا گیا کچرا کون اٹھا رہا ہے
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